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Wednesday, September 15, 2025

Matrimony is Good for Your Eyes

That title probably caught your attention! icon_wink.gif

But no, I’m not talking about marriage, but rather the “vegetable” Matrimony Vine. This is actually the branch and leaves of the same plant from which the Chinese wolfberry (gou qi) comes. In Chinese, the vine is (naturally) referred to as “gou qi cai” (in Mandarin) or “kou kay choi” (in Cantonese). [In other parts of South East Asia, it takes on the names “daun koki” (Indonesia) and “phon kao ki” (Thailand).]

Just as the dried fruit (gou qi) is very often used in Chinese cooking – most commonly in soups, both sweet and savory – so too are the leaves of the Lycium Chinensis plant cooked and eaten.

While the Chinese wolfberry is commonly accepted to have wonderful beneficial qualities for eyes, given its high beta carotene content, its leaves are less often associated with the same health benefits. However, a lot of Chinese families hold the belief, as passed down from generation to generation, that this vegetable also has amazing restorative powers for the eyes.

My uncle (mum’s older brother) for one is a firm believer. He used to often tell the story of how as a young lad, he suddenly suffered a loss of vision – not totally, but enough that he had the barest and the fuzziest of sight only. In those days (1950s), in this part of the world, top-notch specialist eye care was rare. Doctors simply told him he was going to lose his sight, and there was nothing they could do for him. In a panic, my grandmother cooked and fed him this gou qi cai, boiled into soup with the wolfberries, every day. And after a period of time, his sight was fully restored. He is now a professor of biology and he still stands by the curative powers of this vegetable!

Less dramatically, I remember as kids, all my cousins and I found, especially around the time of our exams (when we were - supposedly – mugging away at our books), that this vegetable appeared with alarming alacrity at our dinner tables. I guess our mothers fed us on the basis of the motto “bright eyes, clear eyesight… all the better to study with”! icon_lol.gif

To this day, we still cook this vegetable very regularly – either in soup or sautéed. I tend to eat it now more for the taste – which I really enjoy; the health benefits are just bonuses on the side. I like the ‘unique’ texture of this vegetable; it is not crunchy or crisp like most other vegetables. Instead, once cooked, it has a very soft, smooth tenderness to it, with a tiny touch of bite.

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Soup is probably the most common way of cooking the gou qi cai. It’s a mighty simple thing to cook. The only “troublesome” bit is the prepping of the matrimony vine leaves – not difficult, just highly time-consuming.

The stems and branches are not eaten; only the leaves are used. So, each leaf has to be painstakingly snipped from the vine. For us, we like to remove the stem completely (as seen in the picture above), so that there is no trace of any “tough”, chewy bits in the vegetable. This makes for incredibly tender leaves that almost melt in the mouth after cooking.

This is a painless (and almost enjoyable) activity to do when you’re just sitting around the kitchen table in the afternoon having a chat and a cup of tea; half an hour passes a lot quicker when you have company and interesting conversation!

Once trimmed, the leaves are thoroughly washed and drained, ready to be cooked. The branches are not discarded just yet though… they still have one final use before they go into the trash can.


Gou Qi Cai Soup

• Bring a pot of water (with enough liquid to make up the amount of soup you want) to a rolling boil. Pop in the bald branches (folded, so that they fit into the pot), and leave to simmer for about 20 minutes or so. [This is just to flavor the soup and extract the nutrition and vitamins from the branches before they are discarded.]

• Remove and discard the gou qi cai sticks.

• Put one chicken breast (skin removed) into the soup and simmer for about 20 minutes. [Feel free to use chicken bones or pork bones if those are preferred.]

• Add the gou qi cai leaves and about 1-2 generously heaped tablespoons of Chinese wolfberries (gou qi). On low heat, simmer, uncovered, for about 10 minutes or until the leaves are nicely tender.

• In the meantime, lightly beat several eggs (we usually use around three; more if serving a larger group of people), and season with a dash of light soy sauce, a pinch of sugar and a sprinkling of ground white pepper.

• Bring the soup back to a rolling boil, and pour in the lightly beaten eggs. Stir gently to break up the eggs. Remove the pot from the flame and allow the eggs to finish cooking in the residual heat ; do not overcook the eggs. [For this particular soup, I tend to prefer the eggs chunky. You may choose to swirl the eggs to form thin, elongated strands instead.]

* If a more full-bodied flavor is desired, the soup can also be seasoned with salt to taste or half a square of MSG-free, low sodium bouillon cube.

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Another way that we very often cook this gou qi cai is to stir-fry it with eggs – almost like an omelette or even an egg pancake. I’m not sure if other families cook it this way; I haven’t seen it outside of my extended family. But this is rather tasty, I find – and great for those who don’t like soups, or don’t like their soups chunky and filled with lots of vegetables.

This omelette is hardly classy, elegant food – not by a long shot. However, what it doesn’t have going for it in the looks department, it does compensate for in the satiation department. This is essentially another one of those homey, down-to-earth, comforting soul foods that never fail to tug at the heartstrings.


Gou Qi Cai Omelette

• Cut some carrots into very fine juliennes.

• Add a little bit of oil to a hot wok, and sauté some minced garlic until fragrant but not colored. Drop in the carrots and fry until almost tender.

• Put in the washed and well-drained gou qi cai leaves and toss briefly. Cover the wok and allow to steam-cook for about 5 minutes or until leaves are tender. Do not add any water. [The leaves will leech some liquids, but that’s okay. These will be “absorbed” once the eggs go in.]

• Uncover, season with some salt to taste. Mix well.

• Lightly beat three eggs (or however many you would like to put in), and season them with a dash of light soy sauce, a pinch of sugar and a sprinkling of ground pepper.

• Slowly dribble the eggs into the wok. Let the eggs to set a little; resist the urge to ‘stir-fry’ the eggs at this point – this will produce mushy clumps of eggs.

• Once the eggs have set a little, flip the vegetable/egg mixture over (like flipping a pancake) and cook the other side.

• When the eggs are fully set, remove from the heat.

The eggs and vegetables take on a pancake-like form. The eggs will have a slightly subdued coloring due to the juices from the gou qi cai; the taste is not affected. [I’ve never tried this, as it’s way too fiddly for me, but if the duller coloring bothers you too much, simply drain the juices that are released by the gou qi cai before adding the eggs. This will ensure the colors of the eggs stay bright and cheery.]


What is it that they say about eyes being windows to the soul? So, maybe the matrimony vine can also have some knock-on effects in the marriage sphere after all. icon_wink.gif

Here’s to bright, sparkling and captivating eyes!


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wow u really hv the patient to snip off the stems as well :p *salute*

Posted by: babe_kl | September 15, 2025 04:58 PM

Renee, try it with a bit of chicken stock, wolf berries and pieces of century eggs and crack a salted egg once it boils...yummie....the omelette looks good ( i want to try) but cant find this veg here i think...

Posted by: husky9 | September 15, 2025 06:33 PM

Hi Renee! Sorry, I'm embarrassingly new to blogging, so don't know if this is really the right place for my comment, but just wanted to say: I'm totally impressed! A devoted foodie myself, I'm just starting to discover all the food blogs that are out there, but your in-depth food forays are especially entertaining. And I think I've finally found a kindred spirit who likes nothing better than a 200-step recipe (ok, maybe just a slight exaggeration) and won't back down from a dish that might take days to prepare. Was actually born in Singapore myself, but feel like I'm learning about all the local dishes from you for the first time (the bakchang post was good stuff). I gotta ask: how do you know so much?--you know, about the background of all those dishes and ingredients?

Well, keep up the good blog!

Posted by: Rachel | September 15, 2025 11:30 PM

Hi Renee,

You know, this is one of my favourite vegetables too. Unfortunately, "kou kay choi" is virtually unavailable in the supermarkets here. Hence, the only way I get to enjoy this vegetable is to indulge in it when I get home (to Singapore).

I have never removed so much of the stem before - usually just to the base of the leaf. When I next get back to Singapore, I have to spend some time and effort to try your method.

Anyway, thanks for (yet another) comfort-food post!

Posted by: jcheng | September 16, 2025 12:23 AM

hi babe kl,
actually my house help does it : D
(unfortunately, I don't usually have the time)


hi husky9,
that's an interesting variation.
I very rarely take century eggs (maybe once a year or less - lol!), and only very occasionally cook with salted eggs, but with the current fresh egg shortage, I may just give the salted egg version a shot : )

yeah, I think this veggie is probably not found outside of North and South East Asia.
tho' maybe the Asian grocery stores in Chinatown may have them once in a blue moon? then again, they would probably cost a bomb : (


hi jcheng,
isn't it so true? sometimes it's the simplest dishes and ingredients that we miss so much, huh? and which we take for granted when we are at home.

: ) I suspect the Kho family may be the only ones that remove the full stem from each leaf! lol. it is a hassle, but we really like the vege all tender and soft, and find the stems get in the way of that.
sigh! the things we do in the name of food! : D

Posted by: Renee | September 16, 2025 03:14 AM

hi Rachel,
welcome to my blog : )
thanks for the compliments and am very happy to know you are enjoying the posts.

no worries about any "wrong placement" of comments at all... any where is a good place for a friendly comment ; )
thanks for dropping me a note; it's always nice to receive comments... it then feels more like a two-way conversation for me, rather than me doing a mad-woman monologue ; D

lol! I'm not sure I'm one for a 200-step recipe... deep down I'm one heck of a lazy cook... but I do have my moments when I enjoy nothing more than pottering around the kitchen for hours on end, using my hands and playing with the food : )

I'm still constantly learning about food, cooking/baking, ingredients etc.
but I guess I'm lucky to have a very good teacher in my mum - who's an amazing well of food knowledge and cooking tips...

btw, if I may ask, where are you residing now? (you say you were born in s'pore)

Posted by: Renee | September 16, 2025 03:18 AM

Reminded me of my childhood ..........

Posted by: nyetzy | September 16, 2025 01:24 PM

hi renee:)
sigh of relief when u said 'no wrong placement' of comment. hehe, cuz i won't know where else to go.! anyway, straight to the point.
i just wanted to share this really awesome recipe that i found frm the back of a cream cheese packet.. vanilla creme brulee cheesecake! knowing you're a fan of all things sweet.. i had photos of it when it came out frm the oven, but since i'm in uni computers..dont have access to it now (sorry!) but didn't get a chance to take a photo of a sliced up cross section of it (cuz it was gobbled within one night!!!!)

a) 1 1/4 cup crushed gingernut biscuits
b) 60 g butter
c) 3x 250g cream cheese
d) 1 cup sugar
e) 3 eggs, lightly beaten
f) 1 vanilla pod
g) 1 cup cream
h) 1/3 cup brown sugar
i) 1 can pear halves, drained.

prepare the base (a&b;) and chill. beat c&d;,then e. cut vanilla pod lengthwise n scrape the seeds into the cream, stir and add into cream cheese mixture. bake at 150 celcius for 1 1/4 hr. arrange pear halves, sprinkle brown sugar on top, and grill till brown sugar is melted and a lil brown. serve chilled.

ta daaa~~

p/s: recipe's very summarized cuz i know u know the basics.~i.e. crush biscuits n mix with butter etc. it's a nice and simple recipe, but just by adding and changing one or two ingredients more, it makes a whole lotta difference!! hehe, i'm all excited and happy about my upcoming baking spree!!! (cuz i've finished all asessments for the next few weeks!)
pp/s: thanks for giving me a place to mentally excrete my hoo-haa bout baking. nobody else in my flat wants to hear about it. :D

Posted by: jo | September 16, 2025 04:41 PM

Hey Renee,

You should be proud of your "mad-woman monologues" (hmm, catchy). I can scarcely believe you juggle a job AND still put what is obviously a lot of work into this blog.

After reading one of your IMBB posts, I find it really hard to believe you're a lazy cook. But I have to admit that my love of the 200-step recipe extends only to baking. Otherwise, it's atrociously slap-dash meals, except on special occasions.

Oh, you're lucky to have a knowledgeable mom who shares your love of food and cooking. I must say, that's the other thing that makes your blog nice: that your family is often included, sometimes in the preparing, (but I think) mostly in the eating and enjoyment of the things you make. I always have ten times more fun cooking when I know my efforts are going to be enjoyed by friends or family.

As to your question, I've been in Tokyo for a couple of years now. Haven't actually lived in Singapore for years and years. But my parents are still there, so I do go back and visit (and pig out! Naturally.) from time to time.

Posted by: Rachel | September 16, 2025 08:49 PM

The pictures of the omelet (and the soup) are drivng me crazy. I love eggs scrambled together with spinach or other greens--and the pictures of the omelet produced a constant chant of "must have" in my brain. So, now I have to walk around thinking about that all day!

I don't believe I've ever seen matrimony vine before. Must check that out too. After I have a nice omelet.

Sher

Posted by: sher | September 17, 2025 04:05 AM

The pictures of the omelet (and the soup) are drivng me crazy. I love eggs scrambled together with spinach or other greens--and the pictures of the omelet produced a constant chant of "must have" in my brain. So, now I have to walk around thinking about that all day!

I don't believe I've ever seen matrimony vine before. Must check that out too. After I have a nice omelet.

Sher

Posted by: sher | September 17, 2025 04:05 AM

Wow! You are incredibly patient to strip the stems off the leaves too! I always start to, then get tired and resign myself to tough stems to eat with the yummy soup.

Have you tried it with pork kidney instead of chicken in the soup? That's how I learned it from my mother and still prepare it that way. But your omlette looks scrumptious. I'll have to try it that way.

BTW, it's not expensive to find in San Francisco Chinatown.

Posted by: cyndy | September 17, 2025 04:49 AM

Love your blog, learnt something new today, didn't know that the Matrimony Vine and the wolfberry come from the same family, and of cos how to cook it. Gonna try to get some this weekend, but with the egg shortage now, gotta skip the omelette, unless anyone out there knows where to get some. Keep blogging.....it's something that all of us look forward to...

Posted by: Sharon | September 17, 2025 11:22 AM

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